tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post6574524986274949704..comments2023-10-16T16:18:08.461+01:00Comments on Living with Agoraphobia: Stress Stress StressLynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16985336897832589441noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post-80289002581552010782013-11-19T02:28:43.939+00:002013-11-19T02:28:43.939+00:00Many could have tried but the spell they want migh...Many could have tried but the spell they want might not work for them, few have tried and it worked for them. what we need is a guaranteed psychic to do this. My love left and abandoned me because i had weak erection and i didn't do well in bed. <br />And when i was having this all bullshit, life was of no meaning to me for the one person i loved so much had left me and i couldn't find a true love to replace her and it was all my fault of impotency. And one certain day when i tuned in, i saw on tv this psychic from Africa being interviewed for his good deeds, i gave it a try with little faith. i fax the neccesary info he needed for me with little pay.<br />And in just 7 days later as he assured me, i was completely healed of weak erection and as though it looked to me like a movie or something, my wife i so cherished that i taught will not come back to me again came back and apologised for leaving me.<br />And if you're in real love and your partner who had a quarrel or something reunite with you, then you will feel my joy. We are one again and i am healed of weak erection for when i had sex with my beloveth, she screamed for the first time and we both enjoyed ourselves, thanks to Dr. Esiendo at hoodoospellcasts@outlook.com spell he did for me.<br />And if really you need an end to that situation of yours, whatever it might be, i will recommend you Dr. Esiendo's hoodoo spells, the source that helped me and i bet you that you will surely be helped.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10440914098928702884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post-33894600063964398912013-11-11T18:06:34.622+00:002013-11-11T18:06:34.622+00:00Hi Lynn, I cannot thank you enough for sharing you...Hi Lynn, I cannot thank you enough for sharing your story. Somehow it's easy to feel like we are alone in this, when there are other people out there quietly suffering the same challenges. It means the world to have people like you who share. And not to offer unsolicited advice, but I wish I'd found this book years ago. It's the GAPS diet. Gut And Psychology Syndrome by Dr. Natasha Campbell-McBride. I am using the diet to treat my severe agoraphobia and depression (and it makes an enormous difference for my low iron etc too) but many people swear by it for autism, especially when it is used to heal kids who are quite young. Anywho sorry for the unsolicited advice; I just wanted to share that with you in case it might be of interest or help. And thank you for sharing and helping others with your beautiful strength! hugs, Melmel m. m. mccarthyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18059201574461739410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post-67584488206642182782013-09-24T18:13:02.144+01:002013-09-24T18:13:02.144+01:00Wow, you've really had a go of it! I appreciat...Wow, you've really had a go of it! I appreciate the dedication and skill you've shown dealing with a relationship breakdown and staying strong for your son.<br /><br />It's awful how hard dealing with everyday life is when you suffer from anxiety. People who haven't been there just don't understand what a struggle it is.Greg Weberhttp://www.drivingpeace.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post-72504739104929489142013-09-22T16:41:28.867+01:002013-09-22T16:41:28.867+01:00I’m sure that we can live without
anxiety. Althoug...I’m sure that we can live without<br />anxiety. Although it is isn’t fatal it<br />afflicts us with a constant doubt<br />that tortures us with no apparent benefit,<br />and may cause us to seek relief<br />of insecurity with insobriety,<br />or an irrational belief<br />whose side-effects include a quest for piety,<br />benefiting liquor stores,<br />drug pushers, charlatans, psychologists and shrinks,<br />and turns us into dreadful bores<br />when sober, and still worse ones after drinks.<br />Complaints about it quickly lead<br />to feelings in those listening of satiety.<br />However hard these people plead<br />for your attention, boycott their anxiety.<br />what is good for anxietyhttp://agoraphobiasucks.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post-3637570595531935772013-09-19T11:29:36.186+01:002013-09-19T11:29:36.186+01:00I think some anxiety about your ex taking your son...I think some anxiety about your ex taking your son is perfectly natural.<br /><br />Regarding the "stinking thinking", I read that stress is a survival response. It used to be that stress occurred to help us out of danger. Adrenaline. Flight or fight response. Like living outdoors and taking a hike and seeing a bear. You will naturally feel stress and it's in order to keep you alive.<br /><br />Well in today's society, we aren't exposed to those types of situations as much. But that doesn't mean those defense mechanisms go away.<br /><br />I am no doctor. But I have been trying to cope with stress and anxiety in my own way (including but not limited to searching how-to's on the Internet). It's a lot to do with reassuring yourself that whatever is happening, isn't life threatening. And if you can't convince yourself of that, maybe try and accept that death is a part of life, don't spend your life fearing it. Don't spend your life in constant fear. Doesn't mean you shouldn't have a healthy fear of bears.<br /><br />And if that doesn't work... Consider life in older times before advancements in travel. People didn't go many places. Or at least not everyone in the household. Maybe to the watering hole. The local stores. Etc. School, church, neighbors... Whatever floated their boat. -- have you considered moving to a smaller community? There might be a town out there perfect for you where you don't have to feel ashamed about not wanting to leave the house much, but still a tight knit community so that you're not in danger of becoming a recluse.. But of course that's a gigantic step.<br /><br />Or maybe something that builds your confidence would help you. Like martial arts or something. Something where you can feel, "no matter what, I know I can protect myself."<br /><br />I mean no harm, just trying to help. Good luck and many blessings to you and yours. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post-45341013921196665602013-09-17T13:47:51.055+01:002013-09-17T13:47:51.055+01:00Thanks for all the comments. Its nice to have your...Thanks for all the comments. Its nice to have your support and a little reminder that im actually doing ok. I m really focusing my energy into the right things now and hoping to see big changes. Think Positive :) xxLynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16985336897832589441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post-69148872678356705042013-09-16T18:08:06.244+01:002013-09-16T18:08:06.244+01:00Oh dear Lynn, it really sounds as though you'v...Oh dear Lynn, it really sounds as though you've had such a lot to cope with. You're inspiring to so many people though, because you cope so much better than so many others ever could! Honestly, don't ever forget how strong you are. It's good to hear that you're going to take the plunge and swap onto some different medication. Finding the right antidepressant (in my case Escitalopram/Lexapro) was the main turning point for me, and I couldn't believe how much it helped me. Wishing you lots of positivity and improvement. Rose xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post-55091290719582600052013-09-12T22:34:24.377+01:002013-09-12T22:34:24.377+01:00Lynn,
You've certainly come through a lot mo...Lynn, <br /><br />You've certainly come through a lot more than people should have to go through. From reading your blog in the early days I think you have progressed more than you realise and give yourself credit for- its always easier to see from the outside rather than amid it. My kids are older now and I haven't done half the things you have with your boy so don't beat yourself up as your boy has all he needs from you which is more than some kids get.<br /><br />I do hope things pick up for you soon.<br /><br />All the best<br /><br />RabRabhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351256234806096898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3914969552005146177.post-18441261017561566392013-09-12T03:41:23.817+01:002013-09-12T03:41:23.817+01:00As a 44 year old who has struggled with panic his ...As a 44 year old who has struggled with panic his whole life and agoraphobia for the last 5-8 years or so I can very much relate to what you are going through. I have the disadvantage of not being able to be alone without panicking, but a *huge* advantage of a very supportive wife who is willing to work with me the best she can (and it is very, very hard on her). I feel horrible about how hard it is on her. I also have two young ones (6 and 8) and fear how it affects them.<br /><br />I have no great words of wisdom to help you... just know there are others out here with similar challenges. It is devastating. It is humiliating. I wish I could do something for you and for me. <br /><br />Best of luck and thank you for your blog. It helps me to know I am not the only "crazy" one out here. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com